Momtourage Monday: Killing it in Silicon Valley
1. How do you define Momtourage?
Momtourage is my tribe. My village. My circle of support from moms I personally know
and ones in my extended network. They offer affirmations, prayers, cheers, and words of encouragement and help me understand that I am not alone and we are on this journey together.
2. How do you balance Motherhood?
As a first-time mom, it’s about prioritizing and understanding what is important to me and my family. I was in several leadership positions within my church and sorority and decided to take a step back once my son arrived so that I could shift my focus and completely focus on him. Once my son became a bit older and I had a better view on balancing everything, I was able to resume my duties in my roles. My husband is super amazing and has constantly challenged me to take more “me time” and indulge in self - care, so I’m learning to do that more as well so that I can feel energized and renewed for my husband and son. Whether it’s a regular visit to the hair salon, my manicure and pedicure appointments, a coffee or smoothie break, or sleeping in for an extra hour, these little moments allow me to maintain my sanity.
3. What is your Mommy must have item?
My iPhone X for the amazing portrait option + battery chargers! I keep a charger in my bag as well as in my car so that I’m always ready to capture those special moments.
4. What is your Momtourage story?
My husband and I moved to Silicon Valley almost 3 years ago after my husband was recruited to work at a large tech company. It was a huge move for us since we are both from North Carolina and Virginia. Being 3,000 miles away from family was definitely hard (still is) and became even more challenging as we began planning for our family. Since we do not have any close relatives here, we have learned to depend on our church family, friends who are like family, neighbors, coworkers and sorority sisters and fraternity brothers to fill in the gap during this new season of our lives. It can be frustrating at times when we want to have a real date, spend a night away or attend an evening function because our parents aren’t readily available but we always think of creative ways to spend time together.
A month after I returned from maternity leave, I was given the opportunity to craft my role and was promoted. Around the same time, my husband was tasked with taking on additional responsibilities at work. While we’ve excelled in our careers, it’s also required us to make sacrifices and balance more effectively. I had a huge meeting planned with one of my new board members at a large tech company along with my local and national presidents. My son was not feeling well, so my husband and I had to make an executive decision that he would stay home and cancel one of his meetings as it was important that I attend this meeting and enjoy my moment with our national president. It’s a blessing to be able to able to be a super hero at work as well as a mommy hero at home. Motherhood is a huge balancing act, but I wouldn’t change any of it for the world.
Thank you so much Candrice for sharing your story! As always we hope these stories encourage, or inspire other moms and moms to be!
Until next week....